You may know Africa is a multi cultural continent. It may be the more
ancient part of the world then any other part of the world. However, Polygamy
is still common practice in many parts of Africa although the pressure of
modern day living is perhaps forcing people to re-evaluate cultural traditions.
Take the case of King Maswati the III of Swaziland. He has more than a
hand-full of wives, but far less than his father before him. Keeping one wife happy seems to be a challenge for many men, but when you have more than one, the challenge must become substantial- a challenge The King may not be up to. It would seem that all is not roses in the Royal House.
hand-full of wives, but far less than his father before him. Keeping one wife happy seems to be a challenge for many men, but when you have more than one, the challenge must become substantial- a challenge The King may not be up to. It would seem that all is not roses in the Royal House.
A Short Description about Swaziland:
Swaziland or more formally, The Kingdom of Swaziland is a small African
country lying between South Africa and Mozambique with a reputation for
friendliness and hospitality. Too small to be a threat to anyone but itself,
Swaziland is ‘Africa-Lite’ on a platter: A perfect blend of old and new
offering bush-veld wildness and modern day luxury. This is one of the countries
that South Africans fled to in the apartheid days if they were involved in a
mixed relationship, wanted to let their hair down, gamble a bit at the Swazi
Sun Casino, (before casino’s were legalized in South Africa) or just wanted to
feel free. It is where many of the anti-apartheid freedom fighters took refuge
while planning their attacks on the apartheid government. The current king,
King Maswati III took over the throne in 1986 after returning home from a
British education and is supported by his mum Indlovukazi,
also known as The Great She-Elephant. As Africa’s last
absolute Monarch, The King has fourteen wives, or is it thirteen? Reports vary
and anyway, who can keep up?
A Short Description of the Life of a Queen:
Each year thousands and thousands of Swazi maidens gather and dance before
the Queen Mother at the Reed Dance Festivities and it is here that
traditionally the King on occasion will select a new bride. In general this is
not a random selection, based on a pretty smile and a flashy dance move
although that may be the romantic version, but rather a strategic process based
on strengthening connections - as has always been the case in Africa and the
world over when it comes to arranged marriages. Although more than one Swazi
maiden has been rumored to have fled Swaziland in order to avoid the honor, not
all manage to get away and some perhaps even aspire to the position. After all,
life could be worse. A quarter of the Swazi population relies on international
food aid and an estimated 40% are infected by HIV (the highest percentage of
any country in the world). In contrast, The King has a personal fortune
estimated to sit at over 60 million British pounds and does not seem to shy
away from the ladies. Each wife is set up in luxury with a palatial home and
chauffeur driven vehicles. Shopping trips overseas are not uncommon and the
children are schooled at some of the finest institutes in the world. So even if
you do have to share your man, life could definitely be worse.
A Lot of Queen for One Man
While one might agree that fourteen women equates to plenty of wife to keep
one man happy, one would suspect that keeping them all happy in return would
require quite a lot of man, a challenge that King Maswati III does not seem to
be stepping up to. Based on media reports, all is not well in the Kingdom....
Enter Queen Inkhosikati La Dube.
In 2004 King Maswati married Inkhosikati La Dube, in the wake of two of his
queens absconding. La Dube was to be his twelfth wife. A Swazi Teen Beauty
Queen and a tender sixteen years old, this marriage may well have been more
about the sway of a hip, the flash of an eyelid and the stroke of a bruised ego
than a strategic political or business move. Six years and three children later
La Dube has brought disgrace onto the Royal House being caught in an affair
with none other than the King’s friend and business confident, Minister of
justice and Constitutional Affairs, Ndumiso Mamba. The King was on a state
visit to Taiwan when Mamba was caught doing The Rumba with queen number 12 at a
local hotel. The King was apparently shattered. The scandal in itself must have
been tiring to cope with, never mind the blow to his pride and the loss of not
only his lovely young bride but also his good friend. Due to financial pressure
the King has now been encouraged by his advisers to abstain from marrying
further as each marriage causes huge strain on the already empty state coffers.
In order to satisfy his needs he has been advised to rather entertain
girlfriends at one of his many guest houses scattered across the land.
More Queen Than One Man Can Handle
Rumor from the royal court is that the remaining Queens are a bit set back
by this advice as they see little of their husband as it is. Life for an
African Queen can get lonely and one can’t help wondering if all of this will
lead to further hotel shenanigans between Swazi Royals and loyal servants of
the crown. A strategy for coping with the management of the Queens’ needs in
days gone by was to put them under direct guard by young boys who were removed
from their royal duties at the age of twelve. Anyone of a more eligible age was
placed in the outer-guard circle, out of the reach of the Queens. Queens are
human too and need not be unduly led into temptation. If it sounds stressful
keeping 14 wives happy though, have a thought for the kings of old. King
Maswati’s father for example had 70 wives and over 100 children.
In the ending time fo this article we may happy to hear that, the tradition
is certainly slowing down. Perhaps they don’t make kings like they used to
anymore or perhaps the pressure from the realities of modern life are enforcing
change. One can’t help but wonder if King Maswati III has thought about the
cultural traditions he continues to support and how they contradict the
messages on the bill-boards splayed across his Kingdom promoting one partner
relationships in order to avoid HIV infection. And one wonders if on occasion
in a quiet moment, King Maswati III ever dreams about a more simple, one wife
life!
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